When Lesbian couples have a child, obviously some man has provided the sperm. It's wrong I know but it happens that way. But the Herald on Sunday has built a story (actually three stories) by finding a sperm donor's wife who didn't know he had sired three, maybe six kids in the past year and telling her all about it . "Merry Christmas and did you know your husband has been spreading his seed around - what do you think about that?" I feel sick to the stomach.