You will frequently hear the proponents of gay marriage compare their 'struggle' for 'equality' with that of Martin Luther King, Jr and the Civil Rights protests that took place in America in the 1960s.
I do not believe that gay marriage is a "civil right", especially for the reason of "equality".
For “equality”, the two things being compared must be equal, or “the same” with regard to the unique attributes or innate characteristics that define what those things are. Thus, marriage has always been defined as being between a man and a woman - this is not “the same” or “equal to” two women or two men.
I do not believe that gay marriage is a "civil right", especially for the reason of "equality".
For “equality”, the two things being compared must be equal, or “the same” with regard to the unique attributes or innate characteristics that define what those things are. Thus, marriage has always been defined as being between a man and a woman - this is not “the same” or “equal to” two women or two men.
Are a male/female couple the same as a male/male couple or a female/female couple? No, they
are not. There are differences. For a start, two men or two women can’t have
sexual intercourse (coitus).
Some might argue that this argument falls apart when we compare it to racial equality - that in the past people have argued that a black man and a white man aren't "the same" or "equal" either and used that inequality as a basis for segregation; however, in this case the color of a man is not an attribute that defines what a man is or what makes him equal to another man. The color is a secondary characteristic, much like an apple is an apple, no matter if the skin is red or green.
As far as equality, a red apple has as much apple-ness as a green apple. They are
the same and thus, equal as pertaining to the characteristics or properties
that make an apple, an apple.
We can differentiate people by nationality (this is an
“Indian” man or a “Chinese” man) , or apples by variety (a Granny Smith or a
Braeburn) but, again, these are secondary characteristics and do not define
what it means to be a man or an apple.
Marriage, also, has characteristics that define it. The
color of the couple are secondary. The color(s) of one or both of the couple is
not something that defines what marriage is. The nature of marriage is not
dependant on it. I believe that marriage is dependant, however, on the couple
being a man and a woman. Marriage is based on the complementarity of the couple
based on gender. Because of this complementarity, their union is not only
spiritual but bodily. So, one of the things that define marriage is sexual
intercourse, which gay couples cannot have.
Proof that the union of a man and a woman is natural or
normal is that there are resultant offspring or children. This is not a man-made convention, but something that occurs naturally and something
that is good. It is something that only happens between a man and a woman and
is proof of the ‘rightness’ or correctness of male/female relations and the goodness of the family.
Gay proponents could argue that they want something equivalent to marriage. Equivalent means having the same value, worth or significance; the same in some aspect, but not necessarily all aspects.I believe they already have that in Civil Unions.
Again, the thing is, you can't force things that aren't equal to be equal by force of law. It has nothing to do with civil rights.
Apples and oranges...